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Intimacy, Love, & the Enneagram program

Stages of Intimacy

This course is designed to help you better understand yourself and your intimate relationships through the insights of the Enneagram. You will learn how to break unhealthy patterns, access deeper levels of intimacy, and cultivate greater love and connection. With this program, you will gain insight into how integration of the Enneagram and the instincts can improve communication, deepen understanding among loved ones, and lead to greater self-awareness and freedom.

General Information about the Course

This is Level 2 of the Intimacy, Love, & the Enneagram Program and can be attended as a separate course.


The prerequisite for this course is Enneagram of Personality course by Dr. Khaled ElSherbini or knowing your Enneagram type.

 

The program consists of Levels:

  1. Stages of Love
  2. Stages of Intimacy
  3. Creating Healthy Relationships 


Course Instructor: Dr. Frederik Coene
Location: Online
Starting date: May 3rd, over 12 weekly sessions
Time: on Wednesdays @ 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm Cairo Time (GTM+2)

The course is in English.

The course gives points towards IEA accreditation. 

One-year access to all the course recordings, exercises, slides, community pages, and discussion forums at Enneagram Egypt Learning Portal.


To contact us directly: enneaegypt@gmail.com or WhatsApp/Call +20 103 2445 366




What the course is about

Unresolved issues and trauma hinder the growth of our relationships. Working ourselves through the areas we feel confident about is easy. Still, processing topics that are taboo or uncomfortable to talk about is the real key to transforming these relationships. 


Physical intimacy tends to be a complex matter for most people in the 21st century, so it deserves even more attention than other aspects of marital life.


During this 12-week online course, participants will watch pre-recorded video lessons at their convenience. In addition, there will be a live online discussion session every week to ask questions, go deeper into some of the video material of the week, and put the teachings into the context of your relationships. 


These sessions will be recorded and available for further review. On top of that, weekly online support and discussion sessions – not recorded – will allow for an open discussion and processing of personal stories in a safe environment.




Your Instructor

Instructor

Frederik Coene, PhD

Frederik Coene, Ph.D., an accredited IEA Professional, dedicated his research to intimate relationships, love, and the Enneagram. Dr. Frederik is a head of a leading international research group of psychologists and relationship therapists on Sex and the Enneagram. Frederik believes that the current understanding of the Enneagram model's conceptual-theoretical aspects and the typology of motivation-based personalities as its most widespread application represents only a small part of the full potential. Frederik has dedicated his work in Enneagram to both theoretical and applied research to widen the missing knowledge.

Course curriculum

  • 1

    Introduction

  • 2

    Lesson 1 - The development of human sexuality and sexual values

    • Video 1.1 - Introduction

    • Video 1.2 - Homo Sapiens before the Cognitive Revolution

    • Video 1.3 - The first humans (Homo Sapiens Sapiens)

    • Video 1.4 - Sedentary humans

    • Video 1.5 - Humans under statehood

    • Video 1.6 - Humanism and the industrial revolution

    • Video 1.7 - Social democracy and egalitarianism

    • Video 1.8 - Sex in the future
  • 3

    Lesson 1 - Live Session Recordings

    • 1.1 - Introduction

    • 1.2 - Beige and purple

    • 1.3 - Red

    • 1.4 - Blue

    • Session 1 - slides

    • Session 1 - slides
  • 4

    Lesson 2 - Gendered energy & gender stereotypes, gender identity, and sexual orientation

    • Video 2.1 - The gendered energy of the enneatypes

    • Video 2.2 - Gender identity and sexual orientation
  • 5

    Lesson 2 - Live session recordings

    • Session 2.a - Slides

    • Session 2.b - Slides

    • Session 2.c - Slides

    • 2.1 - Orange

    • 2.2 - Green

    • 2.3 - Yellow and Turquoise

    • 2.4 - Gendered energy

    • 2.5 - Bonus - states and stages
  • 6

    Lesson 3 - The motivations of sex

    • Video 3.1 - Why people have sex

    • Video 3.2 - The distortions of the ego-fixations

    • Video 3.3 - The distortions of the instincts

    • Video 3.4 - The distortions of the levels and the essence of sex
  • 7

    Lesson 3 - Live session recordings

    • Session 3 - Recording

    • Session 3 - Slides
  • 8

    Lesson 4 - Finding a sexual partner

    • Video 4.1 - The impact of the levels of development

    • Video 4.2 - The impact of the instincts

    • Video 4.3 - The impact of the types (Types 3, 7 & 8)

    • Video 4.4 - The impact of the types (Types 2, 4 & 9)

    • Video 4.5 - The impact of the types (Types 1, 5 & 6)
  • 9

    Lesson 4 - Live session recordings

    • Session 4 - slides

    • Session 4 - recording
  • 10

    Lesson 5 - The sexual instinct and the instincts in sex

    • Video 5.1 - The self-preservation (SP) instinct and sex

    • Video 5.2 - The sexual (SX) instinct and sex

    • Video 5.3 - The antagonising dynamics of the SP and SX instincts in sex

    • Video 5.4 - The social (SO) instinct and sex
  • 11

    Lesson 6 - Passions and sins in sex - the body types

    • Video 6.1 - Type 8

    • Video 6.2 - Type 9

    • Video 6.3 - Type 1
  • 12

    Lesson 7 - Passions and sins in sex - the heart types

    • Video 7.1 - Type 2

    • Video 7.2 - Type 3

    • Video 7.3 - Type 4
  • 13

    Lesson 8 - Passions and sins in sex - the head types

    • Video 8.1 - Type 5

    • Video 8.2 - Type 6

    • Video 8.3 - Type 7
  • 14

    Lesson 9 - BDSM, fantasies and communication

    • Video 9.1 - Kink and BDSM

    • Video 9.2 - Sexual fantasies and erotic dreams

    • Video 9.3 - Communication
  • 15

    Lesson 10 - Celibacy and non-monogamy

    • Video 10.1 - Some terminology and general background

    • Video 10.2 - The motivations of non-monogamy

    • Video 10.3 - The instincts and non-monogamy
  • 16

    Lesson 11 - Sex and the ego-states

    • Video 11.1 - The ego-states

    • Video 11.2 - The ego-states and sex

    • Video 11.3 - Sex in the mature human ego-states

    • Video 11.4 - Sex in the immature human ego-states

    • Video 11.5 - Sex in the destructive ego-states
  • 17

    Lesson 12 - Enhancing sexual satisfaction

    • Video 12.1 - Doing you "inner work" in the bedroom

    • Video 12.2 - Masturbation, sex toys and porn

    • Video 12.3 - Love-making as a spiritual practice

    • Video 12.4 - Working with the 3 centers and the 3 instincts

    • Video 12.5 - Learn from the best and avoid the rest

Whom the course is for

  • For understanding and connecting with our beloved ones

    For everyone interested in understanding more profound levels of connecting to our beloved ones, the mystery of human sexuality, and discovering integration of the Enneagram, love, and intimate relations.

  • For marriage counselors, relationships coaches, and intimate relationships therapists

    For specialists to use the integrated knowledge of the Enneagram and intimate relationships to bring their practice to a more professional level.

  • Sex & relationships programs teachers

    Sex and relationships educators for building a solid program and implementing unique research-based data into their work.

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